Cant Say No

[Dragonhome]

hello,

i found out that i never can say no exept
( can i dupe ur base; respond: euh ok for 1 time but dont share )
( Can i borrow some money respond: euh ok but if u scam me il go admin)
( Can i get some ammo for free : respond : sure here ya go)
( can i get some food respond: sure here ya go)

i just Cant say no

So teach me to say NO !

[Generation]

When people don't help you, and the next time they ask help, say NOOOOOOOOOO !!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sr83UrbZb...re=related

[Foxy The Pirate]

it's easy i say no every time someone asks me a favor i just say NO end of discussion.

[Generation]

it's easy i say no every time someone asks me a favor i just say NO end of discussion.

When it's a good friend, sometimes i said yes, it depends from what he asked (if this is money over 20k, i deny).

[The_Alpha_Dog]

First say N then say O and when you put it together it spells NO.

[Eaglex]

You probably feel bad when you say No, but you gotta try it and say it over and over again when they ask you something, but don't just say 'no' try to be polite. like 'No, sorry.' 'No, i don't give stuff away.' or you don't even have to say no, just say, 'i'm not giving any money to you' it sounds less polite, but you get used to it when you say 'no' all the time to someone. i had the same problem when i started to play Multiplayer Games, like WoW or so on.

[Boosted]

Here's a lesson on how to say No:

Firstly, think about what they are asking you for and determine if it's really actually relevant to anything at all.
Second, think about how it would effect you and him if you said no instead of yes.
After, think about the risks and dangers of saying yes instead of no.
Lastly, think of the benefits of you saying no instead of yes, which are normally good.
Finally, just say NO god damn it.

There's a quick lesson on the basics of saying no.

[Toxic]

20 ways to say no.

I AM IN THE MIDDLE OF SEVERAL PROJECTS

•let people know when you have accepted other responsibilities
•no need to make excuses if you don't have any free time
•no one will fault you for having already filled your plate

I AM NOT COMFORTABLE WITH THAT

•you might be uncomfortable with any of a number of issues
•the people involved, the type of work, the morale implications, etc.
•this is a very respectful way to avoid a sticky situation

I AM NOT TAKING ON ANY NEW RESPONSIBILITIES

•you aren't saying that you will never help out again
•just that you feel your schedule is as full as you would like now
•understanding your limits is a talent to be expected

I AM NOT THE MOST QUALIFIED PERSON FOR THE JOB

•if you don't feel that you have adequate skills, that's okay
•it's better to admit your limitations up front
•the best way to avoid feeling overwhelmed down the road

I DO NOT ENJOY THAT KIND OF WORK

•life isn't about drudgery -- if you don't enjoy it, why do it?
•don't be afraid to let someone know you just don't want to
•someone else is bound to enjoy the work you don't

I DO NOT HAVE ANY MORE ROOM IN MY CALENDAR

•be honest if your schedule is filled
•"filled" doesn't have to mean really filled
•know when you are scheduled as much as you are willing and stop

I HATE TO SPLIT MY ATTENTION AMONG PROJECTS

•let people know that you want to do a good job for them
•but you can't when your focus is too divided or splintered
•you will be more effective if you focus on one project at a time

I HAVE ANOTHER COMMITMENT

•it doesn't matter what the commitment is
•it can even simply be time to yourself or with friends or family
•you don't have to justify -- you simply aren't available

I HAVE NO EXPERIENCE WITH THAT

•volunteering shouldn't mean learning an entirely new set of skills
•suggest that they find someone who has experience in that area
•offer to help out with something that you already know how to do

I KNOW YOU WILL DO A WONDERFUL JOB YOURSELF

•people often ask for help because they doubt their own abilities
•let them know that you have confidence they will succeed
•you are actually doing them a favor in the long run

I NEED TO FOCUS MORE ON MY PERSONAL LIFE

•don't be ashamed of wanting to spend time with your family
•having a strong family is an important priority in and of itself
•be willing to put your personal needs first

I NEED TO FOCUS ON MY CAREER RIGHT NOW

•often, you have to focus your energies on a work-related task
•you may have to give up some civic or community duties
•if you don't do it, someone else will take on the task

I NEED TO LEAVE SOME FREE TIME FOR MYSELF

•it's okay to be selfish -- in a good way!
•treat your personal time like any other appointment
•block off time in your calendar and guard it with your life

I WOULD RATHER DECLINE THAN DO A MEDIOCRE JOB

•know when you aren't going to be able to deliver a quality product
•the reason doesn't matter -- not enough time, wrong skills, etc.
•whatever the reason is enough for turning a request down

I WOULD RATHER HELP OUT WITH ANOTHER TASK

•saying no doesn't mean that you can't help at all
•if someone asks you to do something you really despise, refuse
•then offer to help with something you find more enjoyable

LET ME HOOK YOU UP WITH SOMEONE WHO CAN DO IT

•if you aren't available to help out, offer another qualified resource
•helping to connect people is a valuable service to offer
•make sure the person you refer will represent you well

NO

•sometimes it's okay to just say no!
•just say it in a way that expresses respect and courtesy
•leave the door open for good relations

NOT RIGHT NOW, BUT I CAN DO IT LATER

•if you really want to help but don't have time, say so
•offer to help at a later time or date
•if they can't wait for you, they'll find someone else

SOME THINGS HAVE COME UP THAT NEED MY ATTENTION

•unexpected things happen that throw your schedule off
•accept that you may need to make a few adjustments
•it is temporary and you will have more time when life stabilizes

THIS REALLY IS NOT MY STRONG SUIT

•it's okay to admit your limitations
•knowing what you can handle and what you can't is a skill
•your time will be more efficiently spent on something you do well

[Catkillerfive]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3zNjQecyjE8
Scrubs FTW

[Dragonhome]

thx all!