What do you consider homophobic?

[goigle!]

But honestly, my opinion is this; if you are gonna bring sexuality into a argument or call someone something that could be taken as a insult then just avoid doing it, it will just offend people and make you look like the bad guy.

The thing is, I didn't bring it into an argument. It was a relevant part of a story I was telling. I can agree agree with the rest of what you said though.

edit: a to an