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(01-09-2016, 05:08 PM)Goigle Wrote: hi how can I get unblacklisted for being a homophobe

Well that would depend. You would have to take a look at the evidence presented against you. I assume that you said some word translating to gay and it offended someone. Which word and was it actually directed as an insult will definately effect your chances. Best way to beat those cases is to simply be honest about it. "Look, I got pissed and said that. I didn't mean it as anti-homosexual, it was just....". People instantly assume if I called you a cigarette, that I was instantly referring to a man who has relations with other men, even though the term for a cigarette is just as valid. Calling someone a cigarette under the thought that it is a cigarette is a way of telling someone that not only are they made of paper, they are cancerous and generally bad for people. Calling someone gay can also be interpreted as happy.

Now I'm not saying go in there and make up some bullshit definition as to why you said whatever you said, but those are some of the positions I have found people in. Also, which administrator you have to own up to will change the way it plays out. Take me for instance. If I was your admin, you'd know because I'd start you off with an insanely long ban (6mo-3yr) just so I know that if you are seriously interested in playing here, you'll post that UBR and not try to ride it out. Once I got you in the UBR, I would end up tearing everything you said apart and generally make you feel as though saying anything was a terrible idea. I would make you feel as small as I could, take your hope away. After I was sure that you got the message, I would point out that how you felt is exactly how you made the other person feel, then reduce or expire the ban.

Sexual misconducts, homophobia, racism, all ride in the same boat with me. Has to do with all the classes the military makes you take on the subject every other month it would seem. All of them have no place in a modern nor civilized society and as such shouldn't have any place here. Hope you found this semi useful. There is no exact playbook for how to win any case hands down, but your motives and emotions leading up to the punishment are what got you there, sort through those and if you are lucky, you can appeal to the human side of your specific staff member.
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Ask Old Man Jokhah - by Old Man Jokhah - 01-08-2016, 03:50 AM
RE: Ask Old Man Jokhah - by Marty - 01-08-2016, 04:01 AM
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RE: Ask Old Man Jokhah - by Old Man Jokhah - 01-08-2016, 09:45 AM
RE: Ask Old Man Jokhah - by goigle! - 01-09-2016, 05:08 PM
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